Worry: the Accidental Love Curse
Today I’m sharing a post from my favorite LOA coach, Jeannette Maw. Enjoy!
Posted: 13 Jul 2013 02:54 PM PDT
You guys are so fabulous at wanting to support your loved ones in enjoying life more.
The notes you regularly send in show how much you want your parents to be healthy, your spouses to be happy, and your kids to be safe. You want your sisters to “get it,” you want your co-workers to end self-sabotaging behavior, and you often write on behalf of friends who are struggling.
You want to know the best way to help them understand, or what’s a good book that can show them the way. What can you do to help things get better for the one you love, you ask.
I know one thing we can all get better at in order to help loved ones thrive …
… that is, to stop worrying about them.
Because worry is an energetic “curse.” It is a projection of negative energy onto another.
And that doesn’t help, guys.
I know it’s natural for us to do this with someone we love, but stressing out on behalf of another is NOT helpful behavior.
Worrying about another is just a curse disguised as love.
Our thoughts are crazy powerful, and the last thing we want to do is saddle our loved one with those frequencies. Especially when they’re already down.
But that’s exactly what we’re doing when we see someone tangled up in contrast and we worry about them.
The next time you really want to help someone who seems to be having a rough go, remember to use your true power and envision them thriving:
- See them coming out on top.
- Picture them at their best.
- Trust that it’s all working out for them.
And if you can’t do that, try not to pay them any attention at all.
On the other hand, for family members and co-workers you don’t like, go ahead and worry about them. (If you don’t mind attracting some of that stuff to yourself as well, that is.)
For everyone else, though – let’s put an end to our inadvertent “love curses.”
Yes, it might be easier said than done, but it is good practice for a powerful creator like yourself.